My Birthday & Bangtan.

Last week I finally turned 22, so I threw myself a glitter themed wine party, because that’s just me. Everyone looked fabulously sparkly, and Kohei, Sheridan and I even unintentionally matched. There was body and hair glitter everywhere, and I’m astounded I didn’t blind myself with any of the craft glitter I put on my eyelids. It was like a 90’s girls dream. All I needed was butterfly clips, Groovy Chick stationary, and some roll-on perfume and I would have been set.

It was actually a very adult birthday that didn’t feel like one at all.  However, some of my students at junior high school that day made me feel super loved, running up to me to give me hugs. 

The next day at one of my elementary schools, my teachers gifted me a beautiful towel, whilst some 8 year olds surprised me with origami and the cutest rendition of Happy Birthday during English club.

I’ve been away for a birthday before, but this was totally different. Nevertheless, I feel super grateful for being surrounded by so many people who made it special in a different kind of way. Gone are the days of BBQ’s in my garden back home, instead my birthday was filled with dinner dates with my Kumamoto darlings. 

At my party, Kohei surprised me with the cutest Winnie the Pooh ice cream cake, then a few days later, Sheridan made me pavlova and drunkenly decorated it at the dinner table. Both very different, but equally as thoughtful.

Bringing my birthday “week” to an end, Ruth, Chloe, Kim and I headed to Fukuoka to see BTS. Full title of the concert? 2017 BTS Live Trilogy Episode III. The Wings Tour – Japan Edition. Bit of a mouthful, I know. The venue was smaller than the past concerts I’ve been to and the atmosphere was so much more. They did everything from solos, to singing old stuff, to using a mix of Korean and Japanese versions which I actually really preferred.  

It was hands down the best concert I’ve been to because, damn, those boys don’t half put on a show. Jimin nearly killed me from being so beautiful and dancing how he does too. I mean, I expected it, but not that much. I’m still saddened my dream of them finding us mid-show and inviting us for a night out in Fukuoka didn’t happen, but at least now Kohei knows where my true loyalties lie.

It really sucks that you aren’t allowed to take pictures or videos, especially because I’m definitely watched by security more being a gaijin. Needless to say, I did manage a sneaky unfocused and muffled video by inconspicuously sticking my phone into the waistband of my shorts. 

I’ve now earned the coolest teacher award for sure. My students were all running to me for an update on Monday morning, followed by a chorus of “いいなあ” after telling them all about it. Even funnier was how they all knew the reason why I had no voice (I’m looking at you, Jimin), but kept that one of the down low for me. It’s like I have my own little BTS posse and I’m the ringleader.

36 hours in Taipei

Clare and I recently went on the most whirlwind trip possible to Taiwan. Taipei has always been one of those cities I’ve wanted to visit, but I honestly couldn’t pinpoint an exact reason why.

YongKang Street was the first area we headed to, still laden with our backpacks, to make the most of our time there. We could have spent hours exploring, as every alleyway was filled with hidden shops selling a variety of what my Dad likes to call “tat”.  It had a very similar vibe to the lesser known areas of Hong Kong I enjoyed just as much.

Whilst here, we visited 3 amazing little places. 8% ice cream sells an array of crazy flavours, with me getting Lemon Pop Rocks, and Clare smashing out both a Chocolate Earl Grey and Honey Basil. Yu Pin Bubble Tea was definitely a local favourite, with so many seasonal varieties to choose from it was pretty difficult to pick just one. If you’re a fan of xiao long bao, or magic little soup dumplings as they shall now be known, head to Hao Gong Dao. What seems just like a roadside vendor turns in a quiet family restaurant on the 1^stfloor, with the dumplings being made and steamed fresh on the roadside and making their way to you via a dumbwaiter. Hands down best xiao long bao I’ve ever eaten.

Afterwards, we made our way to Taipei 101, more endearingly known as the stacked noodle boxes. It’s only of the quirkier skyscapers I’ve seen, but we were truly able to appreciate it after we’d hiked up nearby Elephant Mountain to catch the view just at sunset.  We were staying near the famous Red House district, and it was easy to think you were walking through Myeongdong in Seoul. It was super bustling and a very fun way to end our super tiring first few hours in the city.

The next morning we took a leisurely train ride to visit the areas of Shifen and Juifen, a little more hidden in the countryside. First though we found a glorified shack to eat a traditional breakfast to-go at, one that specialised in Chinese omelettes, soft rolls and hot soy milk. 10/10 would recommend.

First on the list was Shifen, a little village with only a train station and waterfall to its name. The train still runs through the old street now, so a few times an hour the street is cleared, and the train passes within inches of people on the pavement. Somewhat of a tradition in Shifen is to release a lantern into the sky after writing wishes on it. Clare and I chose colours symbolic of our current journeys; mine being career and happiness, Clare’s being bright future and study, in reference to her starting law school this September.

I chose two quotes that resounded well with me. The first, for happiness, being “If there comes a day when we can’t be together, keep me in your heart… I’ll be there forever” from good old Winnie the Pooh. Living abroad and away from a lot of people I love isn’t an issue to me anymore, because I know that no matter what, they’re really not that far away. Even now, I have my own sense of family in Japan, and I know that when we all eventually go our separate ways, the same will apply to them.

The second, for career, was “夢、希望、前進、前進”, which roughly translates to “dream, hope, move forward, move forward”. This comes from a song that holds special memories to me. Not only that, but it came at a time when I was dealing with the transition of imminently graduating from university, and going into a job I didn’t really know what to expect from, but I was throwing myself all in to. It’s a simple reminder to me that all you can do is keep your dreams alive, hope they go well, and if shit hits the fan at any point, brush it off and move on.

In the afternoon we headed to Jiufen, a beautiful old mining town in the mountains, that was the inspiration for the classic film, Spirited Away. Its alleyways were filled with numerous street-food hubs and trinket shops. Teahouses are in abundance, so we found ourselves relaxing with some tea overlooking the bay, with the impending thunderstorm crawling towards us in the distance. It was truly beautiful.

All in all, thank you Taiwan, for almost turning my blood into bubble tea and making me even more motivated to learn how to make soup dumplings at home. Next time I go, it will be a completely different trip entirely, which true to form, will involve all of the cutesy stuff: Hello Kitty bubble tea, café and shabu shabu restaurant, Gudetama, Kumamon & Lego cafes,  the “Modern Toilet” restaurant, and not to mention a bar called “That Fucking Place”.

Until then, I’ll be reminiscing about this trip for a while, or at least as long as the many mosquito bites I acquired up Elephant Mountain continue to bother me.

Camping in Amakusa

Although we’d decided to do this trip before it got too hot, last week started pushing 30 degrees daily and I can already feel my reverse seasonal affective disorder kicking in. It was my first time properly camping, so armed with sunscreen & mosquito coils (along with too little clothing for the windy evening on the mountain top, might I add) I was ready for the adventure.

 

I think we deserve a medal for a) carrying the entire car load up part of the mountain in one trip, and b) managing to put up the tent for the first time, in the pitch black, with no real issues. Cue us starting our little BBQ of veggie skewers, yaki onigiri and mochi with seaweed. Breakfast was equally as simple with soy milk oatmeal, and I even brought along stuff for us to have smores over our “campfire”.

We didn’t do a whole lot during the weekend, but it was the first trip that Sheridan, Clare, Eleesa and I have been on together… long overdue since Clare is leaving to go back to Canada in a few months. Sticking to my promise to embrace being out of my comfort zone, I even joined in on an early morning yoga session ran by Eleesa in our underwear. Definitely not something you could do back in our apartments.

Despite being absolutely knackered and having the busiest week ahead, I definitely needed the time away from the world to fully relax. The views driving along the Five Bridges of Amakusa were beautiful, and I can only hope I can spend more time exploring that little part of the prefecture that is a cool haven compared to Kumamoto City. I’m a city girl at heart, but you can’t beat waking up to this view in the morning.